Healthy, Loving People

I am allowing healthy, loving people into my life. That's what my affirmation said at tonight's discussion group. It's sooo true!
In order for me to do that, I am getting rid of all the bad seeds and teaching myself that I now demand the respect that I deserve.
Pennylicious and I got rid of our "hidden" contact information for our ex's. You know the info that you need in case you want to try to reach them again because they were your familiar.
I, as well as Pennylicious, have realized that we deserve a lot more respect than we have been given from the men in our lives. The men who wanted total control over us, but pretended not to, told us to our face how much they respected us and turned around and treated us with such disrespect, the one's who tell you how much they love you but play such head games that it's scarey to trust again, and my favorite..... trying to mold us into their mothers and get mad because you didn't clean the house...how sick and twisted is that?
The point being, that is our past and the only people we are allowing in our lives are healthy, loving people.